As we practice the art of forgiveness, it becomes a skill that builds our lives.
Perhaps one has wronged us and has apologized or perhaps no 'sorry" was offered.
Perhaps in our estimation, another does not deserve forgiveness. We therefore hang onto our opinion and thoughts of revenge because we think that the offering of forgiveness makes another's wrong okay.
Our action of forgiveness however places healing and judgment into greater and more capable hands. Our retaliation accomplishes nothing to our benefit whereas God's actions are absolute.
To truly carry so much emotional pain and hurt around is exhausting. To continually let it go, though difficult, frees us for betterment.
If we are honest with ourselves, none of us are blameless. We all owe an apology somewhere and to some one at some time.
It's not easy to own our part, but an apology means that we are willing to learn and it frees us in unpredictable ways. It also brings honor to God.